Author Archives: mysteryshrink
Going with the Flo
Impractical Psychology On this New Year’s my mind goes back to Ellen, the thirty-three-year old mother with breast cancer who, after she’d been informed that she had from twenty-four to forty-eight of consciousness left, called me for help. Me? What did I know? I was a twenty-five-year psychologist barely out …
Have you ever said “yes” when you meant “no”?
If You Have No Part in the Problem, You Have to Power to Improve the Situation
Practical Psychology: What Works and What’s Nuts . . . For any change effort to make a difference in a relationship or experience, we must switch attention away from what other people are thinking and doing and direct attention toward thinking about and better understanding our own emotions and behavior. …
Me Change? You’re Kidding, Right?
Practical Psychology: What Works and What’s Nuts
“I only have 24 hours to be concious, Dr. DeShong. How can I stop crying?” The Past is . . . History. The Future is . . . Mystery. The Present Moment is . . . a Gift. I’d been in practice without supervision for exactly two weeks when I …
Practical Psychology: What Works and What’s Just Nuts
Can a Good Psychologist Take Away the Guilt? . . . The Case of the Guilty Boss . . . There are a lot of notions out there about what happens in a session with a psychologist. The most common stereotype is that a client sits down with a psychologist, …