How panicked should we be when another person gets us in their sites?  I’m not talking about a “stalker” in the criminal sense.  But when you feel as if you have a target on your back?  That someone has an opinion of you and you can’t change it?   Of course, I can’t write three sentences in a row without saying . . . There’s only one person we can change.  And, as we go lilting through this example, the most productive thing you can do (besides chuckle, chuckles always good) is to think of a time when you have “targeted” More >