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The occurrence and transfer of anxiety are natural processes, not pathology. So, lighten up on judging yourself while we have a little fun peeking at our human nuttiness.
about 10 months ago - No comments
Treat a horse like a showhorse if you want a winner.
about 1 year ago - No comments
Who makes you anxious? How to be less anxious.
about 1 year ago - No comments
If you want to mess up your future you can.
about 1 year ago - No comments
Do you waste time trying to get your spouse to change?
about 1 year ago - No comments
Now, technically, if you have a decent psychologist on your weekly schedule, you are IMMUNE to the DOWNER kick. But, let’s face it, if you had those kind of bucks you’d be at the opera right now. So, let’s work with what we have. The human has two guidance systems: The EMOTIONAL GUIDANCE SYSTEM is dedicated to
about 1 year ago - No comments
What have I learned studying FAMILY SYSTEMS and the importance of family that can help out people who are dating? Easy. The key is–get to know his family really well . . . and keep yours hidden in the basement. I’m kidding. There are very few basements around here and, if your family’s like mine, something like a cement door
about 1 year ago - 1 comment
Okay. Some more on FUSION . . . sticking yourself to someone else’s anxiety. Making THEIR anxiety about YOU. We lose power over ourselves when we cannot operate separately . . . when our “mood” is determined by the “mood” of another person. When our sense of doing okay is dependant on another person (usually a
about 1 year ago - 731 comments
Which, of course, they are going to be anyway. But since we’ve given our precious permission, what that means is that we CANNOT be all surprised when they are themselves. Remember we expected that. Gave permission. Later in evolvement we’ll even recognize that others have THE RIGHT to be themselves. But, not yet. For now
about 1 year ago - No comments
I was going to lie low until the Spring as I have a book coming out in early summer, timing and all. But I can’t wait. Yesterday on the plane the man behind me chastised his wife, “You make decisions based on your emotions while I make decisions based on what I see and