Jacking Up and Calming Down with Family
The Movie Revolt Incident: It was Friday afternoon after Thanksgiving. After lunch, a group of six laws and in-laws in my husband’s family decided to go to a popular horror movie. 
On the way, one sister-in-law announced she’d drop off the rest of us and come back to pick us up, as she did not want to see this particular movie. That’s when things began falling apart. I opted to skip the movie as well. A third expressed doubts and the pro-movie people started suggesting other movies.
Yikes. We stopped to buy a paper and look for another movie, though we three rebels were okay without one. The start time for the horror movie past, one brother-in-law threw up his hands and criticized his wife for not listening to him when he said they should bring the paper with them from home. I started apologizing for some random thing (and thinking how these family “togetherness” holidays were overrated). The original “rebel” launched in on a story from childhood when she didn’t sleep for days after a horror movie. 
Her husband added that she was “always like this with his family, but anything goes when they are with her family.”
All because one person attempted a INDIVIDUALITY move.
Thinking in terms of natural systems, each of us operates with a TOGETHERNESS force and a INDIVIDUALITY force.
What? Think of it like this when you are anxious and find relief calling a friend, your togetherness force was in affect. If you feel calmer at Thanksgiving when you escape to the back den and the football game, your individuality force is in action.
Forget the complexity. In the next several days we will look at ways to manage anxiety when our force for individuality is overwhelmed by the presence of others, each of whom INSISTS ON BEING THEMSELVES instead of only being in ways to MAKE US COMFORTABLE.
Whew. I’m tired just thinking about it. 
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